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नकारात्मकता से सकारात्मकता की ओर...

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नकारात्मकता से सकारात्मकता की ओर....  नमस्कार दोस्तों , कैसे हैं आप सब? आज मेरा मन है कि मैं  आप सब से कुछ बहुत साधारण सी बात शेयर करूँ।  हम सब की आदत हो गयी है नकारात्मक बातें करने की. जैसे कि कहीं हम बीमार न हो जाएँ, कहीं हमारे साथ कुछ गलत न हो जाये, कहीं जॉब नहीं मिली, अगर जॉब से निकाल दिया तो, वगैरह वगैरह। दोस्तों, हम नकारात्मक बातों पर ही क्यों ज़्यादा ध्यान देतें हैं? चलिए मैं आप सब को एक एक्सरसाइज देती हूँ।  हमे ये देखना है कि सुबह से शाम तक हम  खुद के या दूसरों के बारे में कितनी बार नकारात्मक बातें  कहते हैं? दोस्तों हम सभी ने बड़े लोगों को कहते सुना होगा कि पूरे दिन में एक बार हमारी जबान पर माँ सरस्वती बैठती हैं तो क्या पता कब हमारी नकारात्मक बातें सच हो जाएँ। बड़े लोगों ने हमारी नकारात्मक बातें करने की आदत छुड़ाने केलिए जानबूझ कर माँ सरस्वती का नाम इस बात से जोड़ दिया क्योंकि वे ज्ञान की देवी हैं और मानव परम पिता की सर्वश्रेठ रचना है. हमें  हमेशा सकारात्मक बोलना चाहिए।  अगर हम उपर्लिखित उदहारण को न भी मानें तो भी हमें Law of Attraction के बारे में जानना चाहिए। इस लॉ के हिसाब से …

Ask and You shall Receive!!!

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Ask and You shall Receive!!!
Hello Friends, How are you all? I have a very interesting thing to share with you all. Today, in the morning, while cleaning my house, I wished I could find an important paper which I had been searching for a long while. No sooner, I said this to myself, to my surprise, I saw it lying in front of me. All of a sudden, an idea flashed to me, had I asked for something else from the Almighty! Friends, don't you think, this often happens to all of us. We get upset or annoyed at our failures or the problems and we try all the tricks and ways to get rid of them. And interestingly, if we pray to God regarding our problems, we try to bribe Him with some attractive offer. Well, this is an excellent example of our lack of faith in Him. This is absurd and ridiculous. So friends, my today's topic isAsk and you shall receive. Let me give you a testimony. One of my close friends was suffering of spinal tumor. She is a single mother and a school teacher. After she wa…

Self-Image and Success!!!

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Self-Image and Success!!!
Yesterday I met up a girl who used to live in my neighborhood several years back. I was glad to see her after a long time and I couldn't resist myself asking several questions about her life, family, and career. But my happiness couldn’t last for long, since the story she narrated was pathetic and heart-rending. Before sharing her story with you all, let me tell you something about the girl. She was a 25 year old spinster with dark complexion. She graduated in Home Science and was a vivacious person. But she had a weakness due to which she was not gratified with herself. Friends, she ruined her entire life and this was unbelievable that a young girl like her had lost charm for life. She was so diffident that she could believe everyone in the world except herself. Why? It was because she had a poor self-image. She was a gullible and used to perceive herself through the others' viewpoints. She considered herself worthless and a loser because she drew a …

सफलता प्राप्त करने का आसान उपाय

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सफलता प्राप्त करने का आसान उपाय
प्रिय दोस्तों,
आज की भागदौड़ वाली ज़िन्दगी में हम सब इतना फँस चुके हैं की हम भूल ही गए कि हमारे जीवन का उद्देश्य क्या है. मानव इच्छाएं असीमित हैं और उन्हें प्राप्त करने के लिए हम ज़्यादा से ज़्यादा मेहनत करने के लिए प्रयास करते हैं और इसतरह हम सिर्फ खुद तक ही सिमट कर रह गएँ हैं. आखिर कहाँ है सफलता? हम इसे कैसे प्राप्त कर सकते हैं?
दोस्तों, सिर्फ एक काम करना है. मै आपको एक बहुत आसान तरीका बताती हूँ. परंतु उसे आप सब से शेयर करने के पहले एक बहुत महत्त्वपूर्ण  बात बताती हूँ. ये तरीका एक प्रक्रिया है जिसे हमे कॉन्स्टैंटली यानि लगातार प्रैक्टिस करते रहना पड़ेगा.
सबसे पहले हमें थोड़ी देर अकेले बैठना है और सोचना है की हम वास्तव में क्या चाहते हैं. हम दिन भर लोगों से घिरे रहते हैं और हमारे बारे में उनकी क्या ओपिनियन  हैं यही सुनते और सोचते रहते हैं.  और इस तरह से हम अपने आप को दूसरों  की नज़र से देखने के अभ्यस्त हो जाते हैं. जैसे हम काले हैं, मोटे हैं, असफल हैं, आदि इत्यादि, तो कहने का आशय यह है कि हम अपने बारे में क्या सोच रखते हैं, ये जानना बहुत ज़रूरी है.  हममें से …

Guaranteed Success!!!

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Guaranteed Success!!!

Well Friends, Do you have a vision for your dreams? If your answer is positive then it shows you are heading towards your goals but if you’ve not given any thought to your dreams then unfortunately, you forget about immense success. As we don’t stumble upon our success all of a sudden, it happens because we plan and make strategies to achieve it.
Last week while conducting a session on Personal and Professional Enhancement, I asked my audience about their dreams but surprisingly there was not a single answer in a room, consisting 45-50 graduating students. Such casual behaviour of budding talent devastated me. Why can’t we’ve burning desire for our careers? Why don’t we have a clear vision of our goals? Design You FutureJim Rohn says, "Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present." Well, why are we not energetic or cheerful because we have not designed our dreams so far. Let me say that due to vague ide…

How to Save Flying Time and Money??? Part 1

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How to Save Flying Time and Money??? Part 1 In the present scenario, we all have two common problems. Could you please guess which two problems, I’m talking about? Yes, you are right…these two problems are lack of Time and Money. We can easily come across people complaining about how they are grappling hard to stop their hard-earned money and precious time. So what should be done to save money and time? Then how can we achieve the ultimate goal of our life which is happiness and prosperity?  What to do
Friends, sit down for a while and just ponder about your earnings, expenses, and the time span you invest and kill. Indeed, this calculation is vital to evaluate where we stand at this juncture and how we can make a balance. I mean, every single month, we keep waiting and dreaming for our payday and surprisingly, no sooner it arrives, it flies away and leaves us waiting miserably for the next one. It is said that cut the coat according to your cloth but now it is not possible since our nece…

Kill Your Enemies to Live a Wonderful Life!!!

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Don’t be Afraid of Your EnemiesWe keep fighting against outside factors


Well friends,As soon as, we come across the word 'enemy'...we are filled with disgust and abhorrence. Nobody wishes to have enemies around him but life is not possible without them. We've variety of enemies and they are omnipresent. So, we'll have to learn how to defeat them or they will kill us. Enemies arethreat to the political boundaries, social structure, culture, and personal lives etc.  There’s chaos and suspicion all around. Our imagination of Utopia has shattered because of these enemies only.  So we all seem scared and insecure and in order to lead to a peaceful life, we take several precautions from putting thorny hedges to installing web cams.  Our Real Foes
Hang on, I'm coming down to the gist of my blog which is about how to deal with enemy to have tranquility and peace of mind. But friends, what about our inner foes. Why the heck we let them keep troubling us. Why don't we kill …

You should not…you must!!!

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You should not…you must

Friends, how are you all? What’s new? Well, when does a person transform himself? What clicks him to ponder about altering himself or his habits? The answer is a moment when our conscience starts guiding us. 
As a motivational trainer, I keep inspiring people to condition themselves. I narrate stories so that they may condition themselves but probably they don't convince my listeners always? Sometimes after my sessions get over, a few come to me to share how drastically they are determined to change themselves. I become overjoyed to be the reason for the positive change in society yet it’s not a very frequent phenomenon. I know that it’s a gradual change but it will show up some day.
So today, I would like to discuss why 'you should replaces you must' and why it is that significant in our life. Well, we may have different goals and skills but our ultimate destination is a life full of happiness and devoid of any catastrophe. 
We all aspire to progress a…

Who Else but We are our own Cheerleaders

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Who Else but We are our own CheerleadersCheerleaders
Friends, how are you all? Well, I become overwhelmed to think about the amazing gift of the Almighty to me and this gift of Life.  So do we have some goals for a better life? If yes…then what strategies do we have to achieve these goals? Well, while seeing others going ahead in their lives, we moan and blame our stars for not favouring us but let me tell you that we, ourselves will have to be our own cheerleaders. We cannot expect from others, the outside situations, and our fortune to be by our side for a better life. So today I wish to discuss how we can be our own cheerleaders to motivate ourselves for a remarkable life.   Mind as a MagnetWe all know how a magnet works. I mean the magnetic field in it attracts ferrous objects like iron, steel, nickel, and cobalt etc. Don’t worry, I still remember what I am supposed to discuss here :). Our mind, like a magnet attracts the things, it thinks about. I mean if your mind is filled with …

Short Cut to Success!!!

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Short Cut to Success
Friends, do we have any short cut to success? Just think what it may be. Why is success reserved for a very few people of the world? What about the remaining ones who are in millions and billions. Why don’t they have any right to lead magnificent lives? Are they not lucky? So what should we do to improve the quality of our lives? Can unethical ways and manipulation help us to do so? I know you are bewildered to read this sentence of mine but hold on…have patience and read the remaining text, you will find the answers to all your questions. For this is an era of acquiring instant gratification. There is short cut to each and everything, from instant food to instant beauty products. We have become impatient and we wish to get instant result. So let me tell you that there is a short cut to success and this is within our reach. Use Negative Experiences as Mentor
The very first step in this entire procedure is to use our negative experiences as our mentors. The world desi…

सफल बनने की दिशा में पहला कदम

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सफल बनने की दिशा में पहला कदम 
दोस्तों, कैसे  हैं लोग? कभी कभी सफल लोगों को देख कर लगता है कि वो  लोग सफल होने के लिए  क्या करते हैं. कभी कभी तो लगता है कि उनकी किस्मत बहुत अच्छी  है इसीलिए  शायद सफलता उनके  पीछे चलती है. कभी कभी लगता है कि शायद सफल लोगों को काम करने की ज़रुरत ही नहीं है. अंग्रेजी में कहते हैं Some people are born with silver spoon in their mouths. लेकिन दोस्तों ऐसा नहीं है. अगर हम  सफल लोगों के जीवन के बारे में पढ़े तो  पता  चलता है कि उनकी लाइफ बिलकुल भी वैसी नहीं है जैसा कि हम सोचते हैं. जब भी आपको समय मिले तो ऐसे लोगों की लाइफ के बारे में ज़रूर पढ़ियेगा.  तो अब सवाल  उठता है कि हम कैसे सफल बने. कहते हैं No pains no gains. यानि बिना कुछ किये कुछ भी हासिल नहीं होता.  सुबह जल्दी उठे. मैंने कहीं पड़ा था कि सक्सेसफुल लोग  सूरज निकलने के २ घंटे पहले ही उठ जाते हैं. It's really difficult. अगर हम थोड़ा भी सजग हो जाएँ तो यह बिलकुल भी असम्भव नहीं है. सुबह जल्दी उठने से हम बड़े ही आराम से अपना काम सकते हैं. न तो हमे लेट होने की प्रॉब्लम होगी और न ही ट्रैफिक ज़्यादा होने पर अपनी…

Change your Habits and succeed in your Life!!! Part 2

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Change your Habits and succeed in your Life!!!  Part 2
Well friends, let me continue with our yesterday’s conversation about how we can change our entire life positively, if we decide to change our habits. We know very well that bad habits are very easy to learn but hard to live with. So coming down to the further significant points, I would draw your attention towards how to excel at this life transforming skill. Along with the regular meditation and exercise, embarking on a healthy, nutritious diet help us to win the half battle since we’ve subconsciously commenced our preparation for a successful life. Personal Philosophy (Change your Attitude)
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is mystery and today is a gift. Our attitude or personal philosophy lays a concrete foundation for our successful future. Many a time, I come across people who keep replaying their past instances and experiences.  On account of which they neither enjoy their present nor do they plan for a better future. Friends, w…

Change your Habits and Succeed in your Life!!! Part 1

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Change your Habits and Succeed in your Life!!! Part 1
Hello Friends, How are you all? Prosperity and happiness is the absolute truth of our life and if we acquire them, we are considered successful. Yes folks, life seems easy when we are successful but it is the worst if we don’t succeed in our endeavors.  Topic of the Discussion Yesterday I focused on how we can come out of our comfort zones just by challenging ourselves physically and psychologically. Today elaborating on the similar topic, I would share some strategies which will automatically push you towards success. Why it is important to know about these significant strategies? The answer is if you want more, you will have to become more and if you really want to gain more, get ready for more pain. So let me tell you that just by changing our habits, we can change our lives. Brian Tracy, a motivational trainer and author says, "Good habits are hard to form but easy to live with."
Howeveryou may not find my viewpoints very …