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Change is the Only Permanent Thing!!!

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Isn’t it amazing to see how we grow from slapdash kids to responsible teens to caring adults? What happens in the course that makes us so responsible and mature now? Isn’t it like a seed which is sown in the beginning and which grows into a giant tree? As I sit here, thinking silently about my growth, enduring the growth, enduring the changes , I wonder about some questions which don’t have an answer. But it is because of these unanswered questions that I am able to narrate the endless journey.  Friends, let me share a story that I read as a kid. It described a male bird that takes lots of pain to build a nest and the female bird takes shelter in it and lays eggs. After some time the offspring come out of the eggs. The entire nest echoes with the chirping of baby birds . The mother bird nourishes its babies with great efforts. When the birds learn to fly, they fly off to a different place leaving behind the beautiful nest their parent birds in it. It made me wonder…how...

FLY

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I wish to FLY, I wish to soar high and high. I wish to fathom  the height in the sky, I wish to FLY . But how? Please go through the blog which will surely make our desire to FLY possible and definite. Hello folks. today I wish to bring to the table a very significant issue. Before I commence my writing formally, I would like to ask you a few questions, “Have you ever fallen in love with someone”?  It’s really great! How many times have you whispered to your girlfriend or boy friend or spouse, ‘I love you, sweetheart’? How many times we lie to make others realize that we love our partner. Such as, you look terrific today. (Though we have not even noticed what he or she is wearing today.) So now let me know have you ever told yourself, ‘I love myself’. Does it sound surreal? No? Is it a blunder to exhibit love for our own selves? But let me mention that I’ve borne the brunt of showcasing my enormous love for my ‘self’. So, today, I am going to elab...

10 Ways to Influence People

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Well, folks, everyone wishes to be noticed in this overcrowded world. Everybody yearns to stand out in the crowd. I think you also feel the same. There are lots of tricks which we adopt to influence people. We join several courses to be more impressive and effective . This is our burning desire to win the heart of people around us. Since praises, admiration, and accolades are liked by everyone. Since our childhood, we develop a sort of willingness and inclination to acquire these. Today I'm going to share some very simple attributes which will help us to behave more impressively and effectively . So gear up and go through these magical techniques to transform you and your entire personality. We don't have to shout at the top of our voice to be noticed. Believe in action instead of words. Confess your mistakes as accepting our mistakes is not the sign of weakness but it needs immense guts and courage. Be a good listener. Listening is a wonderful skill that requi...

8 Ways to Overcome Stress

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Hello folks, how are you all? I hope you all liked my yesterday's blog. So, yesterday, we were talking about why we should not get stressed out . It's really next to impossible to remain cool during tough situations. But if we really love ourselves, we'll have to overcome our habits of getting stressed out and worried . Today, I tried to calm a peer of mine who lost his anger due to people's casual behavior. The intensity of his anger was too much as his face was red and his eyes were bulging. This incident compelled me to introspect how much we suffer due to extrinsic factors. So, today I am sharing the ways which help us to come out of our stress and worries . Please try to understand these tricks are very simple but effective. You are stressed because of something very serious and you feel that you are screwed up and there's nothing left to lose. Smile from ear to ear and and throw back your shoulders. (You might be thinking that there's something wr...

8 Reasons why we should not worry

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Hello folks. How are you all? Yesterday, while talking with one of my acquaintances, I felt bewildered as during my 10 minutes conversation with him, he shared me how much worried out he was. Now let me tell you the reasons of his worries , 'I am very stressed because of my new boss.', 'I am stressed out because of hair fall', 'My neighbor washes his car in the morning due to which there's a water log in front of my gate.' Having heard the reasons of his worries , I started feeling stressed out and I asked for his leave. So, folks please think if you also get stressed due to such trivial issues. Let me tell you if you do so, you are making your life miserable. I'm giving you 8 reasons why we should not worry. Constant stress and worries cause creases and wrinkles on our faces so as soon as we feel worried or stressed , we should just think of how we are inviting our old age. According to Buddha, 'We are shaped by our thoughts; we bec...

10 Reasons Why We Should Spend Time with the Elderly People

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I still remember how during my childhood days, I used to spend some time with the elderly people of my building. I can’t forget the immense love and affection; they used to scatter over me for a little amount of my time. I used to do their petty works such as cutting their nails or helping them to bathe or to read out newspapers to them. They had interesting life experiences to share and the more time I would spend with them, the more attached I would feel with them. Though none of them is alive now they exist in my life in the form of their blessings. I read somewhere that loneliness is a kind of epidemic. In a country like India, this problem has emerged since people started preferring nuclear families. Since people are so occupied in their lives that they don’t have time to spend with their aging parents. The old age home is the consequence of spreading indifference towards our parents. So, let’s talk about the 10 reasons why we should spend time with the aging...